Akwa Ibom-based cleric, pastor Ab Isong, has advised men never to be in a hurry to conclude on a woman yet until they get to know very well about the woman.
He said some women had had several bad experiences with men as such, they vowed never to live to please any man again.
DON’T CONCLUDE ON HER JUST YET:
Before you judge a woman by her first impression, please take some time to look through her history and see all the mess she has had to go through in the hands of other men before she got to you.
Some women have grown not to care about pleasing a man anymore because they’ve done all the caring for men in the past and they still ended upheartbrokenn.
If She doesn’t cook for you or clean your house, it doesn’t mean she’s not a domesticated wife material, she just doesn’t care about doing all that to please a man anymore, because all the cooking and cleaning she did for other men ended in the same story.
She’s tired of pretending to like your family, all the other times she enslaved herself to gain love and approval from a man’s family ended up in the same story.
She doesn’t care if you think she has an attitude, now she’s just being herself.
No faking, no acting, if your family do not like her the way she is then it’s their problem, all the would be mother in-laws she loved in the past said nothing when their son dumped her.
She’s not falling for sex anymore, or holding hands, or public displays of affections, she is not coming over, she’s not interested in meeting your friends, she is not buying you nothing with her money, she is not taking care of your bills when you are broke, she has been through a lot to let herself get fooled again, she’s not falling for those same old love stories in different versions, right now she doesn’t care.
Most times we miss good women because we judge them too soon, without taking time to understand why they are the way they are.
Before judging a woman by her first impression find out her story, she might be all that you want in a woman but she’s just holding back her affections until she’s sure you’re not another waste of her time.
When you understand what she’s been through, and you make a consistent effort to show her that you’re not like all the other men she has been with, and you get her to trust you, she will come at you with a level of love you have never seen before.
Just don’t judge too soon.
That Girl Is A Broken Angel,
Groom Her Brokenness And Her Angelic Nature Will Resurface.
My name is Ab.Isong